One easy way to find money to start your business

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Money Palava!!!

Last week, I got really sad because I did not have as much money as I wanted. I was not broke oh, I just did not have as much money as I wanted, so I started complaining, from complaining I got into a bad mood, before I knew it, I broke down and started crying,  I lost hope and the only things I kept seeing were the things that were not working. I wanted to just close shop, as in fire my staff and quit my business. It was one of those days when you just say, “I am tired”.

The following day, a friend of mine that I had not spoken to in a while called me, and as we were catching up on long pending gist. One thing led to the other, and as I was trying to explain something, I started telling her how I was grateful to God for a number of things in my life.  I was saying them in quick succession, and after I dropped the call, I had this huge relief in my heart. I was not sad anymore. I suddenly had a new lease of life. in the next 30 mins, i got inspired to make a fab new earring that i had been struggling with and a new bag design. (will share the pictures with you in my next post).  I wondered why I was suddenly so happy, and then it hit me.

Gratitude is a switch

If you continue to focus on what you don’t have, you will never have enough, and you will never see the good in what you have. It is just a negative cycle, because it is not like complaining brings you any money or does you any good.

On the other hand, when you focus on being grateful for what you have, you will be in the right frame of mind to see the good in the things you have, and ideas on how to capitalize on them will start coming to you.

Do you have an idea to start a business and you feel you don’t have enuogh money? Start by being grateful for all the things that you already have. You will start looking at the things you have in a new light. You must have heard people say, “start with what you have”. It is gratitude that makes you see what you have, and gets you excited about doing something with the little that you have.

The single greatest thing you can do to change your life today would be to start being grateful for what you have right now. And the more grateful you are, the more you get.”

— Oprah Winfrey

Action time!!!

Spend at least 5 minutes every day writing down and reading out the things you are grateful for. You can write it on a notepad or on your phone, and you can read it out to yourself or to a friend.

I have started writing mine, I’m kicking complaints out of my life for good!

Join me today. Lol

I would love to hear from you, please share at least one thing that you are grateful for in the comments below.

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  • adenike

    Reply Reply April 3, 2013

    Thanks Steph! I got a lump in my throat while reading this. Just what I need to hear, right now.

    I am grateful for:
    1. The gift of life
    2. Health in my bones
    3. The salvation of my soul
    4. A loving and supportive husband
    5. 2 beautiful children
    6. Finances: we can pay our own bills, we don’t need to call anyone!!
    7. Seen and unseen victories. I learnt this one from my parents. If only we had an idea of all the unseen victories in our lives!!!
    8.Friends like Steph (*wink)

    These are just some of the things I’m grateful for…there’s so much more this comment box cannot contain…

    Well done Steph!

  • Moji

    Reply Reply April 3, 2013

    Thanks Stephanie for reminding me again to be grateful.

  • princess

    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    Well !!, I’m grateful steph’s started blogging,and adding value, Grateful ur my big sister *eyelashes* big ups

  • olatunbode

    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    My first read here for a while.

    I’m grateful for
    1. God’s inspiration. It dazzles me daily
    2. God’s mercies. Much much needed. Especially for me
    3. How I somehow get to get the work done. inspite of how big the work seems.
    4. Love.
    5. My book. I need to be very grateful for this one. I need that switch!
    6. You, Stephanie Obi. My friend, who I miss 😉

    And more.

    Keep em coming.

    • Stephanie Obi

      Reply Reply April 10, 2013

      Aww, blushing.

  • Eziaha

    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    Had a 5minute sadness today
    Ok maybe 50mins
    Focus was all wrong!!!
    But E’s got her groove back
    And this is helping me groove even more


    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    Hi Stephanie

    Really inspiring, and I totallya agree with you because similar thing just happened to me to days ago and I did what you did unconsiously and somhow I gained hope, courage and strenght.

  • sam

    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    Thanks sis, this gives great releif,
    1. Grateful for my parents,, wife unseen, kids unborn, future to conquer,
    3. grateful for intelligent friends like you.

  • Emediong

    Reply Reply April 4, 2013

    Thanks ST.

    I am grateful 1. For locating you today…lol.
    Am grateful 4 wat 2 eat 2day cos I woke up wonderin wat I wil take 2 work but He provided.
    Am grateful 4 wat He’s doin btw me & my bobo.
    Am grateful 4 am goin 2 b inspired 2 start sth even wen ders notin even if is only 4 myself nw….
    God is a GOOD GOD!

  • OmogeNaija

    Reply Reply April 11, 2013

    BAG! Really?

  • Tochukwu

    Reply Reply June 18, 2014

    Tanks dear

    • Stephanie Obi

      Reply Reply June 18, 2014

      You welcome Tochi

  • Osinachi

    Reply Reply August 20, 2015

    Hi Steph, thanks for this great piece. Although am seeing it years after it was written, it inspired me. Despite having a marriage that is at the verge of breaking and living with uncertainty as per the future, I am still grateful to God. For my family who has never given up on trying to make me happy and for being alive to see this day. It’s a blessing.
    Thanks again!

  • demilade

    Reply Reply October 16, 2015

    I’m grateful that I stumbled on your blog. I’m grateful for how pregnant my future is. I’m grateful for answered prayers.

  • Nedee

    Reply Reply July 19, 2017

    I am inspired. I am grateful for
    1. Life….seeing today is a miracle
    2. things that are falling into place in my life
    3. Stumbling upon your post on facebook today. That led me here.
    4.provision. Even though my account balance says otherwise at the moment, I’m grateful for fresh hope
    5. My business. It is a huge success

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